Thursday, May 17, 2012
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02
2012

10 Tips to Strengthen Your Character

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Quote

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are--while your reputation is merely what others think you are.” John Wooden

Scripture

Don't be impressed with charisma; look for character.”  Matthew 7:15 (The MESSAGE Bible)

Prayer

Abba. Father. Lord. Magnificent One. Redeemer-Kinsman. Merciful One. Forgiver of sins. God of the second chance. Life-giving Savior, I pray today for all the men and women who have been called into Your Kingdom's work and stand with character against the wiles of Satan--strong for firm. Character is an important issue today, as it was in the time of Jesus. One who lose his character loses his reputation also. Give us courage and a strong mind to have the kind of character that will honor You--in all we do in this new year. Grant us wisdom to make right choices and keep ourselves spiritually, morally and emotionally fit in these difficult days. In the strong name of the One who came to show us true character by the way He lived, Jesus. Amen, and Amen.

10 Tips to Strengthen Your Character

I discovered a survey recently in an issue of USA TODAY that was very interesting. The article dealt with the TEN VALUE SKILLS that are the most important in today's society and world. These 10 skills are the ones employers look for when hiring and churches should look for when bringing on a new pastor or staff member.

I have asked several good friends to take each of these Value Skills and write a brief comment about each one in coming issues of MME. The first is, as you might have already guessed, is CHARACTER. My very dear friend and former pastor, Dr. Gary Fenton, Dawson Baptist Church, Birmingham, Alabama, is the first to give his thoughts on this very important subject.

Follow these 10 tips and you will take steps on the character-path and develop and strengthen your character:

  1. Respond to situations rather than reacting to circumstances. Your response requires choices, and reacting is doing what comes naturally. Since we are by nature self-centered, then reacting will most usually be self-serving.
  2. Act as if everyone you meet knows your address and phone number.
  3. Secrecy is a prelude to moral and spiritual failure.
  4. Goal setting is a form of accountability.
  5. Be angry and shame not. You cannot shame others into good behavior.
  6. If you want to show compassion, listen; but if you want to help, listen with discernment.
  7. Your image is revealed in your creed, but your character is revealed in your conduct.
  8. Cowardice is not the absence of courage but the rejection of faith.
  9. Begin the day with praise so you can live with poise.
  10. If you want to know what Jesus would do, then read what Jesus said and what Jesus did.

If you would like to have more information about character and other topics, go to Dr. Fenton's Character website: Characterpath.com.

What think ye

Leadership


Courage Establishes Leadership

Leaders in the Bible are instructed to be courageous and to lead courageously. You can name the ones who stood tall in crisis times, such as Esther, Joshua, Gideon, Moses, and many more. Leaders worth following are always careful--careful because they really care for those who have chosen to follow.

Ever heard these statements from church committees or members?

• I’m not afraid. I’m just being cautious.
• You can’t just rush into these things, you know!
• I’m not quite sure we’re ready for this!
• We’d best get a sub-committee on this one!
• Remember: you’re just around for so long. We’ll be here after you’re gone!

When you face risks involved in leadership, are you careful or fearful? Every leader must wrestle with this question.

As a leader, each of us is equipped with the talent and intuition that is necessary to lead people. But—courage always establishes you as a leader in the minds of others. All the leaders we know, love, respect, revere and imitate have walked through life displaying courage.

Capital Follows Courage! Courage to dream the dream always precedes the capital needed to finance and fulfill the dream. BUT…defining moments in industry, breakthroughs in business…all these begin with COURAGE…not capital. Never be scared of the numbers. But don’t embrace and encourage a dream you cannot afford to solve!

WHAT always precedes HOW. The only way to figure out HOW something can get done is to refuse to take your eyes off WHAT needs to be done. Don’t let the HOW get in the way and cast fear upon your dream. Because the HOW is so challenging is the very reason it provides leadership with great opportunity.

What is impossible for you to do in your job?
If it could be done, would it fundamentally change this church?
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Somebody needs to be asking these two questions. Why not you??? Unsolved problems are gateways to the future! And…the future…is NOW!

(Article is based on the out-of-print book, THE NEXT GENERATION LEADER, by Andy Stanley. If you can find a copy, get it!)

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Anthems

Alleluia, He Lives!, Words/Music by Joel Raney; SATB, Piano or Organ, with optional Handbells and Brass Quartet; C5731 - $2.10; C5731P (Instrumental Parts) $24.95 (includes conductors score)

  

Typically, for many churches, Easter music tends to be 'low key,' and sometimes, less than inspirational. If you would like a rousing Easter celebration anthem, look no further. The very gifted and talented composer, Joel Raney, presents a spirited anthem that will capture the Easter spirit from the opening measures to the end. Look for an appearance of Beethoven's marvelous hymn, Ode to Joy in the middle section. The congregation could possibly sing this section if text were printed in the bulletin! This piece is a sure Easter winner. You will like it!

  

 

Hosanna Processional, Words/Music by Joseph M. Martin; SATB; Children or Unison Choir; Piano; optional 4 handbells; C5745 - $1.95

 
When one considers the quality of his writings, Joseph M. Martin is one of the most consistent composers in today's church music field! He never ceases to amaze me with his choral and keyboard writing skills, seemingly written specifically for the church marker! Thank you, Joe!

If you would like to have a wonderful Palm Sunday processional, this is the one you should consider. It will involve four handbells - which could be doubled or tripled of course, children or youth choir, SATB choir and keyboard. Measures 5-12 are repeated three times, giving all ample opportunity to arrive in pre-determined places so the piece can continue. Other persons could carry palm branches to make this even more exciting for the congregation. It will be a very exciting entrance anthem! Wish I was somewhere that I could use this one. I surely would and so will you when you see/hear it.

 
When in Our Music God is Glorified, Words by Fred Pratt Green; Music by Charles Stanford; Arranged by Joseph M. Martin; SATB; Piano; C5736; $2.05

This text/tune is one of my favorite contemporary hymns. It speaks to my heart every time I hear or sing it. There are many settings of this grand text/tune in print, but few will compare to the setting by Joseph M. Martin. He has captured power of the text and complimented the music with subtle word paintings in the middle verse, using chromatics that set the tone for the fourth stanza where Jesus and the disciples sing a hymn on the night He was betrayed. A series of "alleluias" so compliment this section and the final stanza literally burst forth in joy with a great ending that will electrify the congregation - and maybe keep the pastor awake!! You will enjoy this piece.


How Deep the Fathers' Love for Us, Words/Music by Stuart Townend; Arranged by Larry Shackley; C5739 -SATB Voices and Keyboard - $2.10; C5768 - SAB Voices & keyboard; C5739 - $2.10

If you haven't as yet heard the new hymn texts and tunes by Stuart Townend and Keith/Kristen Getty, you have a rare and delightful treat in store for you. I suggest you so online and discover these three wonderful writers! This hymn tune, set in 5/4 time, literally sings itself - your choir will have absolutely no problem with the 5/4 time. The text is so very meaningful. Study it carefully before you introduce it to your people. The congregation could even sing the first stanza with the choir, if this hymn has been introduced previously to them.

Larry Shackley is one of today's new composer/arrangers who is making his mark in church choral music. He handles the 5/4 music in a very easy and smooth way, inserting 3/4 in several places. The choral writing is excellent, as is the keyboard work. This is a grand way to introduce this new text/tune to your congregation.

Handbell

I Will Sing of My Redeemer, HYFRYDOL Hymn Tune, arranged by Lloyd Larson for 3-5 Octave Bells; #2591; Level 2; $4.95

 
I love it when a hymn tune comes together in a great, easy, well-arranged handbell piece! This one is just that kind of piece--festive, exciting and very usable. Larson has provided work for all the bell positions, yet give us a straight-forward piece that will be enjoyed by the ringers as well as the congregation! It is perhaps a 2 or 3 rehearsal piece and it will be ready! Good job, Lloyd!

 
Worthy of Worship, Hymn Tune JUDSON by Mark Blankenship; Arranged by Bill Ingram for 3-5 Octave Bells with optional 3 octave Handchimes; #2589; Level 2; $5.25

My good friend, Mark Blankenship, composed this wonderful tune some time ago, set to a fine text by Terry York and it has become very popular worship hymn in evangelical circles. Bill Ingram has created a very usable, easy-to-learn setting of this tune, and the optional handchimes make a world of difference, if you can round these up somewhere, should you not have them. The handchimes carry the melody in the opening stanza and the bells add support. In the second stanza, the chimes provide accompaniment for the bells. This piece has few bell changes so it will be a snap to prepare for worship! Your people will love this one.


How Deep the Fathers' Love for Us, Music by Stuart Townend; Arranged by Peggy Bettcher; 3-5 octaves; Level 3+; $5.25; #2588

This setting of the Townend Lenten tune is very "ethereal," using the "singing bell" technique in the opening and closing sections of this most effective chart. Bettcher keeps the piece in 3/4 time throughout with a hint of 2/4 ever so often. She uses a multitude of bell techniques, including suspended handbells and LV ringing, which creates the mood of mystery and wonder that God loves us unconditionally. Every bell position is kept busy in this delightful setting for the Easter season.



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The Shadow of the Cross, A Contemporary Tenebrae Service, Arranged and composed by Lloyd Larson; SATB Choir, keyboard - #8151 - $8.95; SAB Choir, keyboard - #8157 - $8.95; Narrator; Optional Instruments (flute, oboe, french horn and cello) - #8152 - $55.00; other products available

This 40-work is a "service of darkness," for use during Holy Week. It is easy to learn and will be a meaningful addition to the Holy Week celebration. It features old hymns, new tunes to old hymns, contemporary choruses, and of course, ends with the magnificent hymn, "When I Survey the Wondrous Cross." There are seven readings accompanied by the extinguishing of candles and ends with a mediative conclusion shrouded in darkness. There are eleven pieces in this work, and these can be used as a build up to this special service. It comes in both SAB and SATB versions, and the optional instruments make a wonderful difference if you can round these up for the performance.



New Keyboard Book

To God be the Glory, Hymn Settings for 4-hand piano, arranged by John Carter; #8531; $16.95; Level: easy

If you have four good piano hands laying around or if you have two pianists who love to play duets in 4-hand styling, this is the book for you! Carter always writes very creative materials, whether it be keyboard or vocal, and he has created a marvelous gift to keyboard people with this collection of eight well-known hymn tunes--with flair, style and excitement! The web site says "easy," but I'd call these medium. I don't think they are easy, but get these and you decide! Your congregation will love these and so will the pianists who practice and play them.

Burkhardt has chosen the writings of the well-known writer, Max Lucado, from an adaptation of The Final Week of Jesus, taken from his outstanding book, And the Angels Were Silent. The opening pages of the choral score provides some very good Performance Notes, and a word from the composer. All of the pieces in this collection can be performed individually as well as collectively. This is a grand way to introduce the work to the congregation before the hear it performed all together, with the readings. The CD in the Preview Pack has a very fine performance of this work that we suggest you hear carefully as you make your decision to purchase the work. It will be well worth your time, and you'd still have time to get your order in and the piece learned in time for Holy Week!



New Book

The Book of God--the Bible As a Novel, Walter Wangerin, Jr., $19.99

THIS…is the way to begin this New Year! I found this book while at a friend's house. I read the first chapter and was hooked. I could not put it down. The author puts flesh and blood on the major stories of the Bible, bringing it to life. You will feel as if you are there as the characters unfold before your eyes. The most compassionate story is the relationship between Mary and Joseph.

Wangerin gives readers a fresh look at Peter and John--through the eyes of Jesus. Many of the chapters focus on biblical characters from the famous, like some of the disciples, to the obscure, such as Ehud and Ahikam. Throughout the book, Wangerin is sensitive to the roll of women in the "Bible," even devoting separate chapters to Rebekah and Deborah. "The Book of God" will not replace the Bible itself -- but it encourages readers to look at the Bible in a fresh and lively new light. Using what might be called literary homiletics, Wangerin organizes his book into eight parts. Beginning with "The Ancestors" and concluding with "The Messiah," Wangerin tells God's own story with excitement and reverence.

It will draw you into their lives and you will be there! I bought this book for several friends for Christmas and all responded, basically all saying, "This is the best book I've ever read!" Do yourself a favor. Buy this book today and enjoy the Bible as you never have before. I'll be interested in your response!


Conferences

It is not too late to register for The Annual Calvin Symposium on Worship, a three-day conference, sponsored by the Calvin Institute of Christian Worship and the Center for Excellence in Preaching, Grand Rapids, Michigan from January 26-28, 2012.

This ecumenical conference brings together a wide audience of pastors, worship leaders/planners, artists, musicians, scholars, students, and interested worshipers, with people coming from around the world to gather for a time of fellowship, worship, and learning, seeking to deepen and integrate all aspects of worship, develop gifts, encourage each other, and renew their commitment to the full ministry of the church.

The theme for this symposium will be: The Psalms: When Life is Prayer

You can see the entire program by going to: http://worship.calvin.edu/symposium/program.html, and register online by going to: http://worship.calvin.edu/symposium/register.html

This is a world-class ecumenical conference and would be a great symposium for the entire staff of your church to attend! It will be well worth your time and expense. Don’t miss it! 


Bits 'n Pieces

I am considering a project for the next Christmas season that you can be a part of. I'm not going to talk about it yet, but I hope to do so soon.


Final Thought

Here are a few New Year Quotes that might cause you to think a bit as we enter 2012

An optimist stays up until midnight to see the new year in. A pessimist stays up to make sure the old year leaves.  ~ Bill Vaughan

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Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man.  ~ Benjamin Franklin

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We will open the book.  The pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year's Day.  ~ Edith Lovejoy Pierce

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Grant that I may bring no tear to any eye
When this New Year in time shall end
Let it be said I've played the friend,
Have lived and loved and labored here,
And made of it a happy year. ~Edgar Guest


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